Showing posts with label Fear. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Fear. Show all posts

Friday, February 10, 2012

Voluntary Terminations - Really


A recent ABC news article stated: “When an employee resigns from a job based on his or her own free will, it's known as a voluntary termination. An employee who voluntarily leaves an employment position may do so to take advantage of other employment opportunities, to escape an unfavorable work environment, or for personal reasons.”

Really! In this economy, people are resigning from one job to move to another. About a year ago, I remember an article in the Wall Street Journal that indicated the number of voluntary terminations (also call “quits”) had moved above the number of involuntary terminations (AKA Layoffs.) As a coach, working with folks dealing with transition between jobs, this was good news. The quits rate has maintained steady at 1.5% of total employment. In real numbers about 1.9 million people every month are voluntarily leaving their positions.
Why is this good new? Ask yourself, “Where are these folks going?” The are going to other jobs. That means that their old jobs may be available for you to fill. It also means that some companies that have taken advantage of the lack of open jobs and the surplus of workers will need to change some behaviors. It means that corporate America is starting to trust that the economy has in fact improved and they can start spending once again.

This is all good news... even if it’s not a perfect world where workers have three jobs to choose from and companies are enticing you to come work for them instead of Google. It’s an improvement over 2009, 2010 and 2011.

It’s so easy not to notice this “good news” with all the other (bad) news out there. I am not sure who started it but there is a force out there that is set on creating a mindset of fear and anxiety. I know, let’s call it “the dark side” to borrow from George Lucas.

We need to combat “the dark side” at every opportunity. Don’t listen to negative. Walk--no, run!--away from stinkin’ thinkin’. Turn off the news when you’re feeling blue, fearful, anxious! The most talked about commercial from this year’s Super Bowl was Chrysler ad featuring Clint Eastwood, “It’s Halftime America.” I was shocked to her people slamming the ad as a plug for corporate bailout. It was a commercial that created hope in its viewers. It said, Hey America, time to get back to work and tell the world we’re back.

So the heck with “the dark side” and shame on fear mongers. We’ve survived the worst economy since the Great Depression, this is something to be happy about. If you’re still looking for that next job... then you can be hopeful. It’s time to find our light sabers and remember that we are Jedi Knights and that you have value. The next time someone passes along negative, stinkin’ thinkin’ ignite your light saber and show them the light!

Friday, November 25, 2011

Fear and Trepidation and the Darkside

To quote Master Yoda from Star Wars, "Fear is the path to the Dark Side. Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate; hate leads to suffering...”

In a job search or any aspect of career growth, acting out of fear is a losing proposition. Acting out of confidence is strength. When human beings live in fear, they are not seeing the world in its true light. We make mistakes in judgement and appear to others as afraid and desperate. This just doesn’t help you when you’re going for a new job or a promotion.

For my job seekers we talk in terms of landing a job. If we make land into an acronym:
L: LEARN. Learn all you can.  
A: APPRECIATE. Appreciate what you HAVE.  
N: NETWORK. NETWORK. NETWORK.
D: DON'T DOUBT. Don't doubt yourself, your skills, your abilities.

The D in LAND is an important, an essential point for anyone looking to succeed: staying positive and getting rid of stinkin’ thinkin’ and the worst kind of stinkin’ thinkin’ I know is living in fear.

Fear of failure is a struggle for many. Fear of success is a struggle for others. Yes, fear of success. Being unsure of your abilities is one thing, but being fearful that you won’t live up to others’ expectations is a set up for failure. If interviewers are just getting to know you, you cannot entertain those doubts and fears. It’s poison.

So have faith, You will LAND, you will succeed. Surround yourself with people who build you up. Ask those who can help you, to help you. Be positive: when you’re asked, “How’s it going?’ say, “Outstanding! fantastic, life is good!” And smile, even when you don’t feel like it. Sing or hum a happy song and don’t let fear lead you to the darkside.